tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post1925654995084532670..comments2023-11-03T07:30:41.248-05:00Comments on Gobble Family Adoption: WE HAVE INTERNET!!! :)The Gobble's (Lanetta)http://www.blogger.com/profile/07546265126563920993noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-72501379931785555102010-11-01T14:35:42.054-05:002010-11-01T14:35:42.054-05:00This is so exciting to read about your adventure. ...This is so exciting to read about your adventure. Your pics remind me soooo much of our Russian adoption. Our daughter was from Volgograd and it had WWII war memorials everywhere. Your apartment looks nice and Russia had brown water too. <br /><br />I just wanted to share that when we meet our daughter we were just too nervous and overwhelmed to feel any connection. It took about three days and then we were like...we would do anything for this child. I think everything can just make that first meeting so overwhelming.<br /><br />I pray that you got to the baby home today and meet your son. Please know that you are being prayed for and that this part is the toughest part. (at least it was for us with our Russian adoption) God is with you and is giving you wisdom and guidance. He will make His way clear in time. <br /><br />Blessing to you as you continue on your amazing journey.<br />SydneySydneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04693482254619622711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-61932233770013539722010-10-31T03:22:07.287-05:002010-10-31T03:22:07.287-05:00Hi Guys...I am so sorry I have been distracted wit...Hi Guys...I am so sorry I have been distracted with my little toot! You are not alone. when I actually met Stella I just wasn't sure...it took me a whole day to decide that I wanted to start the process with her...mostly because of comments I got. I also had to say no to so many to find her. go with your heart but think with your head. I know you will find the right one. Many hugs to you! Lisa and Stellalisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16430939905474674630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-2465938690976788172010-10-30T12:59:27.074-05:002010-10-30T12:59:27.074-05:00I'm praying and counting on God to bless you w...I'm praying and counting on God to bless you with peace and confirmation. God is in the details! All He asks you to do is remain faithful, and you are.Vonda Kayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02535676416564237259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-72970729648480817212010-10-30T12:01:45.568-05:002010-10-30T12:01:45.568-05:00praying, loving, praying, holding you close, prayi...praying, loving, praying, holding you close, praying for all your children- close and so far away- and for you and your hubby- for that peace that passes all understanding- that you feel His loving arms around you, holding you up, directing your paths, focusing your eyes to see what He wants you to!!<br />What a great time to do a Povlodor scrap book- goofy pics with Mom and Dad :)<br /><br />Cant wait to hear updates!!<br /><br />Loving on you all from Ohio!!<br /><br />Blessings,<br />DebbieFriends and Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762607695468929105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-24393260685621668342010-10-30T11:59:44.920-05:002010-10-30T11:59:44.920-05:00Hey Gobbles! What an amazing journey you are on!! ...Hey Gobbles! What an amazing journey you are on!! I am in such awe as I read your updates. Girlfriend, I feel your heart as I read your words and my heart breaks with you. I might not completely understand as I have not walked in your shoes, but know that I love you both SOOOO much and I'm praying for you and your girls daily. Hang in there....He didn't bring you this far to fail you now. Your son is waiting for you.....and you'll find him soon.Friends and Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762607695468929105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-58889528224013744162010-10-30T10:47:04.743-05:002010-10-30T10:47:04.743-05:00Hey!! Ok, first thing I want to say is don't f...Hey!! Ok, first thing I want to say is don't forget about plugging in at the same time as the internet is on. It ALWAYS gave us trouble. Not sure why but keep that in mind b/c internet is frustrating and it is the one thing I know you look forward to everyday! I know we did :)<br /><br />We are sending lots of love and prayers your way. It is really hard and trust me I (not as much Chris) was so scared meeting A and A. I didn't feel a quick connection and almost felt less of a connection after meeting them. We love you and know that you will make the right decisions :) Your son is there and you are close to him even if it doesn't feel that way right now.<br />Lots of Love to our Hokies,<br />JessicaJessica and Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02291590756245863695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-77923148874240130432010-10-30T00:51:20.281-05:002010-10-30T00:51:20.281-05:00So glad to see you are finally on your journey. I...So glad to see you are finally on your journey. It is so tough to be halfway around the world separated from your children while waiting to meet a child who will become a part of your family. This part was so tough for me. Saying no is tough but you have to consider your whole family. It seems like you have an open mind, that is great. Good luck, I will be thinking of your family!4texanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14813344872739830839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-47258324172998498432010-10-29T18:53:21.804-05:002010-10-29T18:53:21.804-05:00Dear Lanetta & Phil,
I am certain that your s...Dear Lanetta & Phil,<br /><br />I am certain that your son is just waiting to meet you both and you will know him when you lay eyes on him...............as always your faith is going to get you through the difficult times as no one has more faith than you both.<br /><br />Rest and enjoy your free time because before long you will be home and this will all be cherished memories!!<br /><br />Darlenednd82001https://www.blogger.com/profile/10678469243810468405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-57968024336551336142010-10-29T16:15:27.268-05:002010-10-29T16:15:27.268-05:00I agree with Jstar's comment so much. I'm ...I agree with Jstar's comment so much. I'm so glad you aren't being pressured to choose "N" but I know we were not feeling an instant connection with our daughter either for the first few visits. Of course you know now how very bonded we are with her and how much we love her. It just isn't all magical and fairy tale like when adopting a child. So be open and listen for His still, small voice. I know you are doing that but I just wanted to encourage you that it does take some time with a child to bond. Make the best of your weekend and stay away from that nasty mayo stuff! They even put it on hamburgers in Uralsk!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04244240935842844736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-4990919640641515172010-10-29T13:34:49.638-05:002010-10-29T13:34:49.638-05:00Oh, what a tough week for you! I know that everyb...Oh, what a tough week for you! I know that everybody experiences adoption and bringing a new child into the family differently (however they come), but for us we never "knew" that a kid was ours, including our birth kids, the moment we met them. It's always taken days and weeks, but maybe we're just slow to warm up :) Anyway, just wanted to say hang in there and don't sweat it if there isn't a hurricane-force love the moment you meet your son, whereever he is, sometimes God speaks in the quiet.Jstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00238961954785799617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-46912195073646962602010-10-29T13:18:22.320-05:002010-10-29T13:18:22.320-05:00Hugs to you from Austin, Texas. Your words hit my...Hugs to you from Austin, Texas. Your words hit my heart and brought back so many memories of my trips to Kaz. As difficult as it is, I admire you for your faith and strength knowing that He is leading you to your child. You're walking His journey. All my best, SusanBaby Kaz Moorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07754632509380342812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-55182481342720880192010-10-29T12:25:35.726-05:002010-10-29T12:25:35.726-05:00Thanks for sharing your experience of your first w...Thanks for sharing your experience of your first week in Kaz. I felt like I was right there with you! You have a great attitude and are great at taking it all in stride.Friends and Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762607695468929105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-80706798656869634482010-10-29T11:29:19.279-05:002010-10-29T11:29:19.279-05:00Wow, what an adventure so far...everyone's jou...Wow, what an adventure so far...everyone's journey is so different but yet so in God's hands. It always amazes me to see His sovreignty over it all. Praying that He will guide you and comfort you as you wait and as you go out on Monday. Excited for you all!kitzkazventurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05892605201125564126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-53348353826811203142010-10-29T10:48:38.804-05:002010-10-29T10:48:38.804-05:00Lanetta & Phil,
I'm sending my prayers an...Lanetta & Phil,<br /> I'm sending my prayers and love your way. I know too well how delays feel! Hang in there and have faith. If you need anything let me know!!<br />Hugs!Becki Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13221420982340157220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-58267793378630718352010-10-29T09:11:49.684-05:002010-10-29T09:11:49.684-05:00This is such a wonderful post Lanetta! One of the...This is such a wonderful post Lanetta! One of the things that I love and respct about you the most is that even times of hardship, you are so filled with grace, dignity, and positivity. You are such a bright and shining light!<br /><br />I continue to keep you in my prayers. Of course I wish there was more I could do. :-) I'm sorry this is taking so long.<br /><br />Much love and a big, tight hug to you.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06260996599377622143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-89597209271974080432010-10-29T08:20:59.538-05:002010-10-29T08:20:59.538-05:00Hello you two! Yeah, for some reason they are big ...Hello you two! Yeah, for some reason they are big on mayo over there....when we were in Ukraine that's all they had! haha!! I can't wait until you finally meet your son! Trust me, you WILL know the second you lay your eyes on him...it's such a wonderful feeling!!! So glad that you have internet now so we can follow along. <br />Sending you lots of prayers and patience! <br />God Bless!Our Ukrainian Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034974281967365172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-31670160833365498972010-10-29T08:16:49.547-05:002010-10-29T08:16:49.547-05:00Sooo glad to hear from you. Sorry it is a hard dec...Sooo glad to hear from you. Sorry it is a hard decision time for you but don't lose heart. The Lord WILL reveal your son to you! I told you Svetlana is wonderful! Sounds like they are all willing to work with you so that is a definite bonus! Still praying that today is THE day! Much love to you both!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04244240935842844736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-64494389324991900522010-10-29T07:59:49.306-05:002010-10-29T07:59:49.306-05:00Oh Lanetta, what a beautiful post! You have me cr...Oh Lanetta, what a beautiful post! You have me crying in my cereal over here. Those precious children are in such need! <br /><br />I am so glad you have a great relationship with Svetlana and you aren't feeling rushed or pressured. I will continue to pray that the Lord reveals the son He has already chosen soon! <br /><br />Before he (or she) was in the womb, God knew.....Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084229526990584580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-22011390372779546462010-10-29T07:48:04.886-05:002010-10-29T07:48:04.886-05:00Praying that Monday will bring you and your son to...Praying that Monday will bring you and your son together at last!!!!Jill (& Bob)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11844356356874861176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-77973062661841605272010-10-29T07:39:47.390-05:002010-10-29T07:39:47.390-05:00As I read your post I am so emotional as I remembe...As I read your post I am so emotional as I remember what you are going through so well. That first weekend in Kaz just waiting to meet a child is soooo long. Our weekends here fly by and weekends over there are like time standing still. Believe me, I know without a doubt, that saying No is THE HARDEST thing you can do. But once you meet your son, it will all make sense. Don't think of it as you are saying No, just think of it as, that's not my kid and I still need to find him.<br /><br />If you walk down past the river embankment, there is an excellent Russian restaurant (that has English menus). You could take your time and kill a couple hours there this weekend!<br /><br />Thinking of you so so much! Email or Skype me if you have any questions that I can help with!!<br /><br />Love, <br />Cortney<br /><br />PS - Did Svetlana find the bag I left for you yet???The Stone'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00599965078838760990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-51887929549550047072010-10-29T07:33:45.651-05:002010-10-29T07:33:45.651-05:00Lanetta & Phil,
My heart aches for you. God ...Lanetta & Phil,<br /><br />My heart aches for you. God is in control of this situation. Your son (or daughter?!!!!!) has already been selected for you. I pray your visit to the other orphanage will be fruitful. Do not lose faith. We will continue to pray for you all.<br /><br />I understand about the children left behind. Meeting all those children have changed your life forever. They will be kids that you think of often and pray for continually.<br /><br />Big hugs!<br />MaryAnnaultfamilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00077232221398188734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-9231950809376861112010-10-29T07:30:42.184-05:002010-10-29T07:30:42.184-05:00Lanetta ~ I believe the universe unfolds perfectly...Lanetta ~ I believe the universe unfolds perfectly as it should. As difficult as it must have been to decline those children, you did exactly the right thing, you trusted your heart, and acknowledged what was felt. I hope and pray and know that your child will be revealed to you soon. God Bless, Erinminime0910https://www.blogger.com/profile/12131421137677092422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-31540767306255991212010-10-29T07:27:10.178-05:002010-10-29T07:27:10.178-05:00So happy you have internet! The girls will be thri...So happy you have internet! The girls will be thrilled. I hope you got the pics I sent in email from Tuesday, they were so excited to pose for you and Phil. It was a good and sill afternoon. Can't wait to hear more from Kaz....Friends and Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762607695468929105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-57265834590131662522010-10-29T07:25:17.497-05:002010-10-29T07:25:17.497-05:00I am so glad to hear you are safe and sound, and I...I am so glad to hear you are safe and sound, and I am also even happier in my heart knowing how faith filled you are. This process has been agonzing, but never once did you lose the faith, and you have amassed so many admirers and prayer warriors. I know you will find your son, and I love how everyone who meets you in Kaz sees what an ambassador to Christ you are and how special you are. Your blessed child is waiting, and I know you will find him, cuz your heart is open .<br /><br />Thinking and praying for you! and no more mayo pizzaSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04982648946500718738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7313031958975493317.post-26513516824889559132010-10-29T06:44:43.451-05:002010-10-29T06:44:43.451-05:00I can read this beautifully, so its good.
Lanetta...I can read this beautifully, so its good. <br />Lanetta, you and Phil are in my prayers as you have been for so long now! I will say special prayers over the next several days and add you to our church prayer list as well. Blessings to you both. Be comforted that God has placed you in that region and your son will be revealed to you soon(hopefully today).<br />Warm hugs to you both!Kari Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153072820925036197noreply@blogger.com